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First Week Faux Pas

How exciting! It's your first day on the job and you’re ready to take on the world. Well, hold on there, dude. Believe it or not, you literally have just seconds (or if you are lucky, a few minutes) to convince the entire office that you are a terrific addition. Yes, even before your first cup of coffee, you’ll be the object of lots of office gossip about your wardrobe, confidence, education, economic and relationship status. Even if you do everything right that first day, the rest of that first week you’ll be sized up by colleagues and managers as they try to figure out whether you are a great hire… or not.

Don’t dismiss those first few days believing you'll be given a break because you’re “the new guy.” People aren’t that nice. Instead, be on top of your game because there are a few things that can sour the early impressions people have of you.

Don’t be late. If you show up late to work, you’re doomed. Being on time is a basic expectation that should not be taken lightly. To be safe, do a test run to work and allow extra time for emergencies. Better yet, plan to arrive a few minutes early.
Don’t dress inappropriately. Choosing your work wardrobe– especially during the first week – can be challenging if you're not familiar with the company’s culture. No matter what, stay away from visible tattoos and piercings, unusual hair styles or colors, and any clothing that is too tight, short, baggy, wrinkled or low-cut. Ideally, take a look at an employee manual prior to your first day or contact human resources for guidance.
Don’t forget names. People admire people who remember and use their names. So, try hard to remember the folks you're introduced to during your first week. Associate a person's name with someone or something you know to help jog your memory.
Don’t cuss. You may be comfortably fowl-mouthed with friends or family, but in the workplace such language is considered offensive. Instead, choose your words carefully and avoid phrases like "that sucks" or "that bites." They’re simply unprofessional.
Don’t over-use your cell phone. The hard truth is this: cell phones can become a nuisance in an office setting. If you must use your cell phone, do it privately and quickly. And, if you must bring your cell phone to meetings, be sure to explain why you must have it with you, and put it on vibrate.
Don’t disregard orientation. Training and orientation can be dull – or overwhelming. Don’t create the perception that you are not engaged in your new responsibilities. Instead, ask questions that can give you an advantage during your first few weeks on the job.

So, make an effort to present yourself as favorably as possible right out of the gate. If your co-workers have a good first impression, it will have a positive affect on how they view you in the months and years to come. Remember, you will be sized up every day by everyone you meet. No pressure though. Just be the best you can be. Good luck!

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Posted by Seymour Jobs on 10/26/2009 10:51:00 AM
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Lesson Learned

A good friend of mine was let go from her job just two weeks ago after being a valued employee for over two years. She said she was blindsided because she was rarely tardy, had contributed many ideas and was friends with everyone in the office.

Because of her layoff, she is now scrambling to update her resume and find a new job before her severance pay runs out. Although I love her dearly, I have to say that she should have been better prepared for bad news.

Job security, especially in these tough times, is not what it used to be. Update your resume as you accomplish big projects or tasks at work. Make constant connections to use as references in the future. Most importantly, work every day like it's your last, because it just might be!

Although this may all sound very ominous and negative, remember that if you do a great job day in and day out, you may not ever need to worry about being laid off. Prepare for it, just in case-- but chances are, you'll be safe if you are an all-star employee!

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Posted by Amanda on 4/16/2009 11:17:00 PM
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